Don’t look for shortcuts to God. The market is flooded with surefire, easygoing formulas for a successful life that can be practiced in your spare time. Don’t fall for that stuff, even though crowds of people do.
-Jesus (Matthew 7:13 MSG)
There has never been the slightest doubt in my mind that the God who started this great work in you would keep at it and bring it to a flourishing finish on the very day Christ Jesus appears.
-Apostle Paul (Philippians 1:6 MSG)
Recently, a good friend of mine named Rob gave me a really meaningful gift. It was a book of poetry, a collection of his work from an earlier season of life. The content of the book was special, and I continue to find meaning in its words. But what made this particular gift extra meaningful was the book itself. It was handmade.
Rob has committed himself to learning the art of making hardcover books. He uses quality paper, sews the pages together, glues them, binds them, and covers them. It’s a beautiful craft that requires time, energy, mistakes, and practice in order to master. And let me tell you, a gift that takes that kind of time to create feels like a real treasure. It’s worth something because it wasn’t easy.
The good stuff always takes time. Things that hold real meaning will always be inefficient. There will always be a quicker way, an easier way, to do them. But not necessarily a better way.
It would have been quicker to just email a digital copy of the book and leave it at that. Or for the right fee, 48hrbooks.com will print and bind as many copies as you want to pay for! Our world sure is efficient!
And yet. There’s something about taking the scenic route. Something about going about life not in order to get things done efficiently, but to find lasting meaning in our actions and interactions.
Discipleship is like that. Over the years, Christians have often fallen prey to the allure of an efficient faith. An efficient faith is concerned with the easiest way to get to heaven. The focus is on knowing the right rules and principles to be a Christian, rather than knowing Jesus in the long and meandering way that relationships often form. Efficient Christianity asks how many minutes of daily prayer it takes to be a good Christian and what good works we need to do. Inefficient faith is comfortable with "wasting" time with God and others, serving wherever the need arises, and changing our schedules all over the place if it helps the relationship to deepen.
When we understand the gift of inefficiency, we start to realize a simple truth:
We cannot love that which we do not linger on.
Perhaps we need to learn to linger, in order to learn to love. That goes for our connection with Jesus and each other.
Author and Pastor Eugene Peterson says that “A disciple is a learner, but not in the academic setting of a schoolroom, rather at the work site of a craftsman.”
We cannot zip through discipleship as if we’re binge-watching a show on Netflix. If we want to be transformed into a new person that looks more like Jesus, it’s going to take some hands on practice that will take years.
And as we go, maybe then we can grow in our capacity to love others inefficiently, whether sitting down for a long coffee, offering to help with a night of childcare, or making something by hand for someone else. This creates space for connections to deepen far beyond the surface level connection. Real friendship is frequently inefficient. True love of neighbor often takes time and energy. We simply can’t rush the process if we want to make something really meaningful.
Rob now keeps a stack of his imperfect practice books on his desk to form a makeshift computer table. It’s an artistic reminder of the slow process of growth and the value of making something worthwhile, even if it takes a little more time.
Slow down with God. Slow down with others. You’re far too important to be in a constant hurry. Jesus is already with you, so what’s your rush?
Jesus, thanks for embracing the inefficiency of humanity in order to reveal yourself to us. Help us walk the long path with you.
Make a careful exploration of who you are and the work you have been given, and then sink yourself into that. Don’t be impressed with yourself. Don’t compare yourself with others. Each of you must take responsibility for doing the creative best you can with your own life.
-Galatians 6:4-5 (MSG)
Have you ever given one of those compliments that is actually a thinly shrouded envious comparison? You can always tell by the little tagline that gets added to the end.
“What an athlete. I will never be able to do that.”
“He never let’s anything get to him. I wish I could have that kind of thick skin."
Or one that commonly comes out of my mouth...
“She’s a great administrator. I wish I could organize like that!”
We all have room for growth. But how much time do we spend looking at others and wishing that we were them? The amount of comments that I hear from people about wanting to become like someone else continues to grow. We are in a world of social media bragparisons (I made that word up— it’s a clever combination of bragging and comparisons!) that barrage us with opportunities to create a perfect version of ourselves to shoot for. The only problem is that that version is made up of everyone else but ourselves.
There’s an ancient Hasidic tale about a great rabbi that helps to shed light on our constant dilemma. He lived in the 18th century, and his name was Zusya.
Rabbi Zusya, when he was an older man, was struggling in his final years with the life that he had lived. His students reassured him by telling him that he was almost as wise as Moses and as kind as Abraham.
Rabbi Zusya replied, “In the coming world, they will not ask me: ‘Why were you not Moses?’ or ‘Why were you not Abraham?’ They will ask me: ‘Why were you not Zusya?’”
We all struggle to be us. We tend to think that God would have been a bit wiser if he made us like that bloke over there who seems better at everything. But that’s not how this all works. God desires to redeem and restore everything on this planet, and has deemed people as the partners he wants to use to make it happen. That’s a lot of redemption. And it’s going to need a lot of different types of people to make it happen.
One of my favorite quotes from the exceedingly insightful Dallas Willard was when he spoke of discipleship in light of the What Would Jesus Do (WWJD) movement of the 1990's and said,
“It’s not so much asking what would Jesus do, but rather what would Jesus do if Jesus were you?”
As we follow Jesus, we become more like him, but it happens in a way that also makes us more like the unique person we were created to be. And that will look different in each person’s situation. Perhaps it’s time to make space for that.
We have each been given a unique personality and a unique story. We each have unique abilities that will continue to mature as we bring them to God. And we each have unique experiences, including our hurts and our failures. And yet we take those gifts, often received through pain and tears, and want to trade them in for the story, skills, and personality of another. But it is our limits that create us. They teach us to rely on Jesus. They teach us humility. And they give us wisdom. Why would God want to throw that away? Nothing is wasted in God’s economy. Our greatest deficiencies can even be the opportunity for God’s greatest work through us.
Don’t be Moses. Don’t be Zusya. And you can't be Jesus. Instead, be who Jesus would be if he were you. That’s where you’ll find your truest self, and that’s where you’ll find peace.
Jesus, help me to love and live for You as only I can.
Now that you know these things, you will be blessed if you do them.
- Jesus (John 13:17)
So prepare your minds for action and exercise self-control. Put all your hope in the gracious salvation that will come to you when Jesus Christ is revealed to the world.
- the apostle Peter (1 Peter 1:13)
On a short trail run recently, I got out on the trail after several days of on and off rain. The trail wasn’t unbearably muddy, but there was one clue that no one had been out hiking or running recently. And it was the kind of clue that you couldn’t see coming until it hit you in the face. Several spider webs sprawled from one tree to another, spun unknowingly across the footpath I was using. And unfortunately, my face was the source of their destruction. Over and over again.
This was not a new experience for me. I’ve run through many of these invisible nightmares before. At one point I was driven to the brink and began carrying a long stick as I ran, swinging it in front of me as I barreled down the trail like an unhinged shirtless vigilante, fencing with an imaginary adversary.
At best, breaking through spiderwebs are awkward and uncomfortable. At worst, they are terrifying.
But they accomplish something.
They make it easier for the next person to walk the path.
When I thought about it like that (and as I passed a lady entering the trail walking her dog), I began to feel like maybe all that discomfort was worth it.
Disciples of Jesus are called to be "web breakers" in our relationships. We are the ones who, following Jesus, are willing to be uncomfortable if it means that others can walk a little more easily. It may be easier to just avoid the trail altogether, but life rarely affords us this luxury. Instead, someone has to be the one go first, or else no progress will ever be made.
There are lots of ways to break webs.
- Be the first to apologize and really listen when a relationship is in a standoff or a stalemate.
- Initiate the weird conversation with your spouse about learning how to pray together as a couple.
- Intentionally leave behind destructive habits and attitudes that have become normalized among work friends.
- Take the first step in having difficult but important conversations with loved ones.
- Admit weakness and give others permission to do the same.
- Step out in faith and love so that others see the freedom in it and follow.
On many hikes with my family, it has become my task to break webs on the trail, hopefully making it just a bit less uncomfortable for the them to continue the journey. I hope I can do the same in other areas of my life.
Web-breakers know that in a culture of comfort, living the Jesus way will always feel tough at first. But when we are willing to have the awkward conversations, love the difficult people, and take the first step in faithfulness, we make it easier for the ones beside and behind us.
Someone’s gotta go first. Don’t be afraid.
Jesus, help me take initiative in doing the good things, the hard things, that help us keep moving on the journey. May my discomfort help others move more easily.
What I mean is this: One of you says, “I follow Paul”; another, “I follow Apollos”; another, “I follow Cephas”; still another, “I follow Christ.”
Is Christ divided? Was Paul crucified for you?
-Paul (1 Corinthians 1:12-13)
I pray also for those who will believe in me through their message, that all of them may be one, Father, just as you are in me and I am in you. May they also be in us so that the world may believe that you have sent me.
-Jesus (John 17:20-21)
My children love Harry Potter. Even my 6 year-old, who doesn’t read novels, gets wrapped up in the magical and exciting world of Hogwarts when her brothers tell her about it. They even insisted the entire family take internet quizzes to determine which Hogwarts House we each belong to. It’s like a personality quiz for nine year olds. But there’s a problem. We are a house divided! We have HufflePuff, Gryffindor, Ravenclaw, and Slytherin all under our roof (The pic below is an actual photograph of our family problems). As soon as we discovered our different groups, it became all too easy for that to be the focus of conversation in the living room. Instead of loving the story together, defending a "house" became the most important thing.
It's all well and good when we joke about Harry Potter, but sometimes the games of children become the wars of adults. What happens when God's Church is just as quick to label and divide?
I could continue.
If we think that divisions within the church are a thing of modern creation, we need to think again. The challenges that the early church faced were every bit as intense as what we see today. In Corinth, Paul was frustrated to learn that the church he launched had devolved into factions of believers who were emphasizing the adjective more than the noun. There were Paul Christians, Peter (Cephas) Christians, and Apollos Christians. Some were wealthy and involved in the culturally elite practices. Some were Jewish and remained focused on Jewish law as a primary component of faith. And some were poor and powerless compared to the others. Each of them had different identities, so church was in constant conflict because of it. And Paul nearly loses his cool on multiple occasions as he addresses them. Maybe the most biting question he asks is this: Was Paul crucified for you?
Regardless of the lesser identities that we may hold, the hope of Jesus was that we would practice unity with one another by finding our primary identity in him. We choose to see the best. We seek understanding. We acknowledge that we are family. And we realize that the world will decide a lot of things about Jesus based on how we interact with each other. OUCH. Get it together, Church.
It’s become hard for Christians to practice unity because we have taken our cues from the political climate. We believe the myth that unity can only happen through uniformity, but that was never the case. Peter was a zealot and Matthew was a tax collector. We can guarantee that they didn’t see eye to eye on everything. But because they were both disciples of Jesus, they were called to love and dialogue with one another as they worked out their discipleship. They both had to keep their eyes on the same guy, or else they started moving in different directions.
Here are two simple ways we can move toward unity in Christ:
1. Beware the cult of personality
If you spend more time reading one author/leader/speaker’s perspective on Jesus than you do reading Jesus himself, you may become unable to understand where another Jesus follower is coming from. And Jesus won’t be the primary shaping influence in your life. Paul noticed the cult of personality, and attempted to address it right away.
2. Always identify common ground first
I find it amazing that even in overseas regions where I don’t speak the same language as others, I find a mystical family connection with Christ-followers. But it should be more than mystical. Many of us who follow Jesus have far more in common than we think. The best starting point is to identify those things, and keep them in mind as we work to understand and represent Jesus in the world together.
Yes, we will disagree with one another. That’s healthy. Hopefully we will even grow and be changed through that. But if each of us chooses to truly live our lives in Christ, we’ll find that we’re standing close enough to each other to learn to love.
Jesus, bring us to unity in you so that others will know you have come from God.
Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me—watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly.
- Jesus, Matthew 11:28-30
Keep your eyes on Jesus, who both began and finished this race we’re in. Study how he did it.
- Hebrews 12:2
It’s all connected. Don’t convince yourself otherwise.
I remember one day several years ago when I heard the findings of an experiment in 1995 that re-introduced wolves into the Yellowstone National Park boundaries after not having a wolf pack there in over 70 years. The whole story is explained above in this beautiful 5 minute video (you really do have 5 available minutes to watch this, regardless of what you tell yourself).
After 20 years, what researchers found was evidence of an amazing “trophic cascade.” A trophic cascade is a change in ecology that begins near the top of a food chain and changes everything beneath it. Ecologists began to see that because wolves were introduced, far more was affected than just the assumed impact of less deer. In fact, the end result of the wolves' presence was more tree growth, a number of new species returning to the national park, and even a shift in the physical landscape of the park! Shockingly, the paths of rivers were altered by the changing growth due to the wolves. One small group of wolves changed the entire ecosystem in more ways than anyone imagined.
We are a people and a culture longing for transformed lives but too exhausted to make all of the massive changes to see growth. Maybe we’ve been thinking about it wrong, however. Maybe, instead of an ever-growing list of areas I want to do better at…. maybe we need to learn what leads to a trophic cascade in our soul- and simply start there.
Perhaps the little things that we think we don’t have time for because we are too tired or overwhelmed are the exact things that open our souls up to the far-reaching transformative power of God’s love. As spiritual and physical beings, our selves are more connected than we admit. It's easy to overlook the reality that the stress or conflicts we are dealing with today may be directly related to a conversation or experience that occurred the week before. Our compartmentalized lives make us feel like everything that happens is independent. But the reality is that it’s all connected. And just as the negative moments can have long-term impact, the positive inputs that we introduce to our spiritual ecology can have far reaching consequences. When we invite simple practices of connection with Jesus into our daily lives, we find that Jesus cascades down to the deepest depths and transforms things we never imagined.
Perhaps those moments of pause in the morning or evening to read scripture, to take a walk with Jesus, or to reflect on your day in light of God’s kingdom— perhaps those small moments are the beginning of a trophic cascade in your life, that will eventually allow Jesus to shift your perspective on everything.
-We begin to pause each day, and we become less susceptible to crippling schedule stress.
-We remember where our worth and value lies and so we have less conflicts with others because we are less easily offended.
-We experience God’s grace enough that we begin to be more patient with our children.
-We train ourselves to see beauty for a few moments every day, until we start to see beauty everywhere we look.
There is indeed a trickle down effect of time with Jesus. It will always affect the ecology of our inner and outer lives in surprising ways. Wolves revitalized the landscape of Yellowstone National Park. Jesus revitalizes the landscape of our hearts, souls, minds, and actions.
Maybe start small today? Just sit simply with Jesus and be delighted.
Jesus, spread your influence to the far-reaching places in me.
I have told you all this so that you may have peace in me. Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows. But take heart, because I have overcome the world.
-Jesus (John 16:33)
Rejoice in our confident hope. Be patient in trouble, and keep on praying.
-Paul (Romans 12:12)
My kids went swimming in rivers twice this past week. We try to encourage this sort of Man VS. Wild type of entertainment frequently. It keeps them connected to nature, provides infinite opportunities for exploration, and gives us parents some solid reasons to force them to shower at least once a month. On Friday they were out with friends and the day at the swimming hole was gorgeous. The sun was shining, the water was clear, and the setting was idyllic. Good times had by all.
Saturday morning looked like it was going to be a washout because of the passing storm, but in the afternoon the sun came out. Since we had family visiting for the day, my kids were excited to take their cousins back to their favorite river spot. We headed over as my children spoke of how amazing this place was. Clear water, fun rocks to slide off of, and a deep hole to swim over. But there was one thing we hadn’t thought much about. The previous night’s storm had changed the entire makeup of the river. We arrived. Instead of clear water, it was completely murky. Instead of white rapids, they were the color of, um……. brown trout.
Needless to say, my immediate response was NOPE. I was ready to pack up.
So often, things that once shined with beauty and brilliance look completely different after a storm passes though. The basic contour might be the same, but our experience of it is completely different. That worship song about God’s faithfulness feels different when my heart is broken over an unanswered prayer. Celebrating the victorious life on Sunday is hard when someone is drowning in debt. And certainly, the wonderful and radical vision of Jesus can look far less desirable when we’re actually in the middle of a situation that needs forgiveness or dealing with the fallout of a broken relationship. It's almost enough to make us decide to turn back from it all. It looks so different now. It feels less beautiful.
Back to the river. I was ready to head home. But the kids decided it was worth the risk. They had come this far, they weren’t going to let a disappointing appearance destroy everything. So they dove in. (Not really. DON’T EVER DIVE INTO MURKY WATER, KIDS). So they stepped in. And they began to play. And they experienced beauty in a different way, because they chose to move through the disappointment instead of completely rejecting it. And they found joy and meaning on this new side of it, too, as they adjusted. The rapids were still fun, the summer swimming was still refreshing. You could even make the case that certain fears were gone in the cloudy water. Those scary (harmless) 10 inch trout weren’t noticed anymore, so there was a new freedom from previous fears.
The kids taught us a great lesson that day. Muddy water doesn’t mean that swimming is impossible.
Without a doubt, our faith experience is different when the luster of a utopian reality fades. When you’ve been through the grinder, the world looks different. Suffering takes a toll. But we have a choice in those moments. We can choose to turn back, living in rosy memories of naive yesterdays, or we can lean into the adventure ahead, even though things are a bit cloudy. The hope of Jesus is not an idyllic life. It is a life that even though we have trouble, we know He has indeed overcome the world. It is a life of hope and redemption, where things that seem disappointing and disheartening become the setting for the most redeeming works of God in our entire lives.
Today, let’s look on the muddy rivers in our lives with expectation that our adventure with God is far from over. Let us not be afraid to still step in. And if we are prone to think that all the greatest beauty is behind us, let us remember that when the dirt settles, we will have an even deeper ability to recognize the many shapes of beauty.
Jesus, help me to keep faith, especially when hope is hard.
Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving. (Colossians 3:23-24)
Peter and the other apostles replied, "We must obey God rather than human beings."
I’ve spent much of my life attempting to make people happy. I LOVE BEING LOVED. I also don’t like conflict. I’m not alone in this desire, I know, because I’ve encountered hundreds of other people-pleasers along the way. We can make ourselves sick playing to everyone’s whim.
In 1 Corinthians 9:19, Paul writes, "Though I am free and belong to no one, I have made myself a slave to everyone, to win as many as possible." And at first glance, this statement makes Paul sound like a chronic people pleaser. But the reality is actually quite the opposite. Paul is making this statement to explain why he has rejected financial support from wealthy patrons in Corinth. Corinthian society was founded on patronage. Wealthy members of society would “sponsor” their clients, who could then spend their days making art, giving rhetorical speeches, and getting involved in social society. Though they would not have high status, they would use their voice to publicly affirm how great their patrons were, which would translate into their patrons rising in social and political influence. Paul has chosen to reject patronage from some of the wealthy Corinthian church members, and they aren’t thrilled with him because of it. One scholar even mentioned that rejection of patronage would be akin to rejection of friendship. But Paul knew that if he accepted their financial support, he would be forced to honor them and serve them disproportionately. God had called him to care for all of the young church, not just it’s wealthy members, and so he rejects it. After all, how could he ever bring words of challenge to his patrons, if he knew that doing so might kill his funding? When Paul says he “belongs to no one,” he is stating clearly that his life will be lived according to Jesus alone, and not beholden to any individual’s expectations.
People pleasing comes in many shapes and forms. Sometimes the pressure is from outside, and sometimes it's from within. For some of us it is the chronic need to impress others or look good in front of them. For others, it is the desire to live up to another’s expectations. For some of us it is about feeling important. In every case, at some point, most of us will face the temptation of people-pleasing. But eventually, in the quiet places, we must all ask ourselves this question: Who is directing my life? Is it the people around me? Or is it Jesus?
The great irony, as we see in Paul’s situation, is that moving away from a people-pleasing mindset actually gives us the freedom to love without restraint. Paul was able to love and serve the poorest members of his church equally, because he refused to be beholden to anyone, even if that made his own livelihood more difficult. He was also able to speak things that needed to be spoken, because he didn’t feel the pressure to elevate one person over another.
When we realize that Jesus is the real one we are serving, then we can serve all people in freedom.
Jesus, free me from the need to impress and please, so that I can serve you fully.
“I have the right to do anything,” you say—but not everything is beneficial. “I have the right to do anything”—but I will not be mastered by anything.[…] You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore, honor God with your bodies.
Paul, 1 Cor. 6:12, 20
I still remember the fateful day that my (then) 8 year-old son looked at me after tanking six Taco Bell tacos on his own. He was so excited to impress me with his growing appetite, as I sat there dumbfounded at how this offspring of mine was so quickly surpassing my own eating limits. But the euphoria was short-lived. The tide had turned and he was now entering into the “regret phase” where gluttony begins to bring its own form of punishment. His eyes locked on mine as he realized that his body was communicating in no uncertain terms that a line had been crossed. He sat there, his face turning a little yellowish, focusing on deep breaths. “What are we learning right now, bud?” I cautiously asked. Without much hesitation, he spoke up slowly....
"Just because you can.... doesn’t mean you should."
We sat there and started laughing together, both at the cleverness of a witty response, and at the important truth that it held.
It’s true, isn’t it? We have a lot of freedom to do a lot of things…. But the reality is that freedom can be used for things that end up hindering life more than bringing it.
Life with Jesus is truly full of grace, and truly full of freedom. We no longer live with a cloud of guilt hanging over us for every mistake we make. We don’t walk around as if we are hopeless failures, because we know we are loved in spite of our mistakes. We are given a new life free of condemnation. Additionally, Jesus sets us free from a life of legalism, and we can experience joy in new ways.
But with that freedom comes a transformed heart, which should lead to transformed actions.
A group of men in Corinth had experienced a taste of that freedom in Christ. Yet they had forgotten that freedom is never given for self-indulgence, but for people to live in peace with God and love others better. They were using a slogan, “I have the right to do anything” in order to take part in the same elite cultural banquets they had been a part of previously, which frequently involved excessive drinking, eating, and even prostitution afterwards. Paul sees that they have misunderstood freedom, and their bodies were being mistreated because of it. Rather than celebrating their freedom to do anything, they should celebrate that they have been set free and act with wisdom, letting nothing control their hearts or minds except Jesus.
We must understand, the body is incredibly important, and how we treat it matters. Paul even reminds his hearers that they will one day be raised again- so don’t throw your bodies around as if they don’t have meaning!
Today our issues may be different than the Corinthians. Maybe you aren’t celebrating freedom by overeating, overdrinking, or prostitution at an idol party. But maybe you work yourself sick. Or maybe you put unhealthy food into your body constantly. Or maybe you starve yourself so that you look good to others. Or maybe you disrespect your body by treating sexuality haphazardly.
No, we are not under condemnation. What good news! But maybe we need to be reminded that what we do with ourselves – how we treat our bodies and others’ bodies-- is of eternal significance. Bodies matter.
I chuckled with my son that day because I knew well his words. I have done things that I could-- never asking if I should. But as we grow with Jesus, we will continue to move into deeper ways of seeing our freedom through a lens of love rather than entitlement.
Jesus, set me free to live well with You and others today with my body, mind, and spirit.
Knowledge puffs up, but love builds up. 2 Anyone who claims to know something does not yet have the necessary knowledge; 3 but anyone who loves God is known by him.
-Paul, 1 Corinthians 8:1b-3
Many of us remember the iconic moment in the movie The Matrix, when Neo comes to grip with the reality of living in a world that was only an illusion. He meets a monk-child who had special abilities and had learned to understand the system they were living in. The child holds a spoon in his hand, and it melts and bends as he gazes at it. He explains to Neo that there is no spoon, there is only the mind. This scene helps to catapult Neo into a world of discovering this secret knowledge. He had been living in a virtual reality,and nothing around him was real. The only thing that counted for anything was this special knowledge- the knowledge of the mind.
There were a bunch of Christians in Corinth that had a similar mindset. Since having the right knowledge was all that mattered- their actions (toward themselves and others) were secondary. Faith was all about what they knew.
It is to this reality that Paul speaks his words of 1 Corinthians 8. He issues a clear challenge:
Having all the right knowledge, if you’re not careful, simply creates know-it-alls that look nothing like Jesus. But love- that’s the real secret sauce. The one who loves with the love of God because they have encountered God— they’re the ones God recognizes. Lots of knowledge makes you feel important. Love makes others feel important.
When knowledge becomes the highest value, two things can happen.
1) We become arrogant.
2) We lose our focus on simply following Jesus in the physical areas of everyday life.
In a world where the quest for knowledge knows no end, and in a culture that thrives on being able to win arguments, it is no surprise that theological beliefs (or knowledge) tend to be the most significant source of division for Christians. While belief is important, the witness of Jesus is that expressed love and unity are really the ultimate goal of the Church. There is need for agreement on certain issues, but the higher value that covers them is that our practices might ultimately show God’s love to the world. Love > Knowledge.
If our faith is truly founded on Jesus, disagreements of interpretation will be far less important than our ability to love one another as God's Church. Is it ok to disagree? Absolutely. In fact, maybe you need to make friends with some people you disagree with. But let us never for a second begin to think that knowing all the correct beliefs about God is the same as knowing God. Today, lean into the humility that comes from knowing that you are loved by Jesus, and so is that person that has a different interpretation than you.
So yes, friends, there is indeed a spoon. Today might be a good day to analyze it a bit less, and use it to feed someone instead.
Jesus, may my faith in you be founded on simple love.
So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.
-1 Corinthians 10:31
As the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without deeds is dead.
- James 2:26
A few weeks ago I heard an inspiring story from my parents. On July 4th, they decided to dust off their old fishing poles for a outdoor fishing date at a local park in Pennsylvania. Despite the busy holiday, they were able to find a beautiful, quiet fishing spot away from the crowds to enjoy time with each other and see if anything was biting.
Before long, a young man walked over, coming from the nearby picnic area. After stopping to watch them, he began to talk fishing a bit and asked if he could look through my father’s tackle box. As time went on, my mother started asking him a few questions about himself. He shared a little about his relationship with his family (not so great). He also asked questions about them. When he found out that my parents had been married for more than 4 decades, he told them that was his life goal. And then, as the conversation continued, something really beautiful happened. He noticed an extra fishing pole lying on the ground beside the tackle box. It only took a moment before he was invited to use it and cast along with them for a while. He felt loved.
And in one small pocket of creation, the kingdom of God was at hand.
In hindsight, my dad wasn’t particularly sure why they had even packed a third pole. It was never their actual intention to invite someone to join them. But along came a lonely young man in need of connection, and a new plan became necessary. Because that’s what disciples do. They are always open to holy interruptions. Sometimes those are small and momentary. Other times they are long-term and costly.
As disciples of Jesus, our hope is that our own hearts will reflect Jesus’ heart each day, and that our actions will reflect Jesus’ actions each day. This is the meaning of discipleship. We are formed internally in the way of Jesus, so that others might also join into this everlasting life. If this is truly our hope, then we must understand several things:
Opportunities to be shaped by Jesus are all over the place.
And opportunities to reveal the love of Jesus to others are equally abundant.
Following Jesus isn’t something that we turn on and off depending on our schedule. It’s an identity, a state of being, and it involves being aware of the little places that we can be agents of God’s love in our world. Spoiler alert: That’s everywhere.
What if bringing an extra pole became a mindset in the lives of Christians? What if we walked around ready to be radically inclusive of outsiders? What if we went through our days understanding that little acts of love add up over time, and can transform people’s lives and turn them toward Jesus? What if our compassion and hospitality is so compelling and beautiful that people can’t help but ask why we live in such a unique way?
These are great times to for a spiritual check-in with Jesus…
Does every person I run into feel like an inconvenience to me?
Am I looking to the Spirit with eyes to see opportunities to practice Jesus’ love?
There are many different ways to bring an extra pole with you as you go. Take a moment to consider what it could look like this week for you.
Jesus, shape us. Give us eyes to see.